Should I stay or should I go?

Hello dear readers, On my last post I told you that this blog would be driven by you! If you have any questions, I will do my best to answer them here on The Tracy Barker Blogs. The first question I will be addressing is… Could you please address when the spouse is getting angry to the point they tell us we’re not safe? Just as we’re moving out, they beg us to stay and promise to get help and to change.   My immediate response to this question is this: your safety MUST come first! From the point of view of someone who has been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder I know only too well the hurt and distress it might cause your spouse if you leave, but if you don’t feel safe you absolutely must look after yourself. You are not responsible for how your spouse feels or reacts to Read full article, you know you want to…